Hi, I’m nicole.
Certified Sexological Bodyworker®. Somatic educator.
Erotic Fairy Greenwitch™.
Also: pattern-seer, quiet rebel, and someone who spent a very long time trying to think her way into a body.
Before I found this work, I lived almost entirely in my mind.
I studied philosophy because I wanted to understand how humans know things—how we build meaning, where we place value, what’s real, and how we come to believe it. I didn’t care about soft answers. I wanted the foundations. The structures beneath everything. The hidden code.
My mind was vast. Bright. Precise. I could travel anywhere—across moral systems, imagined worlds, social theories. I could deconstruct anything. I could explain everything.
But in a room full of actual people?
I didn’t know how to be there.
Looking back, I can see the signs of neurodivergence—likely autism, though I’ve never sought a formal diagnosis. What I do know is that for most of my life, I felt like I was missing a map that everyone else seemed to have.
I could read people with uncanny clarity—microexpressions, emotional undercurrents, power dynamics. I knew what was happening in a room before anyone spoke.
But I didn’t know how to participate in it.
Group dynamics overwhelmed me. Social cues shape-shifted midair. I found safety in structured systems—school, one-on-one intimacy, intellectual frameworks.
My brain was my compass. But my body?
She was quiet.
Carefully managed.
Rarely consulted.
And then I found somatics.
Not as a curiosity, not as a spiritual side path, but as a language. A door. A map I didn’t know I’d been searching for. The first time I felt safe in my own body, it was like someone handed me gravity.
I trained as a Sexological Bodyworker®—not because I was obsessed with sex (I wasn’t), but because I realized that sexuality is the most subversive, disarming, and honest way to understand the human psyche.
It’s where people stop pretending.
Where performance breaks down.
Where control dissolves and truth emerges—through breath, sensation, movement, instinct.
Sexological Bodywork® gave me access to something I had never been able to touch:
my own knowing.
Untranslated. Unexplained. Unperformed.
And from that place—where intellect and instinct finally met—I developed the Body Compass Method™.
The Body Compass Method™ is the structure I created for people like us.
People who need a system to hold them while they re-enter the wildness of their own truth.
People who are brilliant and patterned, attuned and overextended, intuitive but disconnected.
People who know there’s more—but don’t know how to feel it without shutting down.
It’s a framework for returning to the body—not just as a site of healing, but as a source of direction, intelligence, and power.
It weaves together nervous system education, somatic practice, erotic restoration, and trauma-informed intimacy work.
It’s not about achieving pleasure.
It’s about restoring your ability to listen to the signals that are already there.
Because your body?
She’s not random.
She’s not confusing.
She’s deeply ordered—like gravity, like seasons, like breath.
And when you learn to listen to her again, everything changes.
Now, I help others come back into relationship with their own erotic intelligence.
I work with people who are tired of faking it.
Not just orgasms—but connection. Emotion. Identity. Aliveness.
People who know how to be responsible, regulated, high-functioning—
but are secretly aching for softness, safety, and truth.
This work isn’t about becoming more sexual.
It’s about becoming more you.
