deep body Sanctum
A sacred 1:1 space
for returning to your erotic truth
For the ones who ache to meet their erotic self
in a place beneath pain,
beyond script—
where numbness is not a failure,
and the body remembers its truth.
Private 1:1 somatic + Sexological Bodywork® sessions for gentle seekers ready to come home to their bodies, their pleasure, and their joy.
Real Results from Real Clients:
• Pelvic pain that made sex feel impossible—gone after 5 months of work. She’s now enjoying intimacy and initiating it with ease.
• A menstrual cycle & libido that had been missing for 7 years came back—after 3 months of reconnecting with their erotic self.
• She hadn’t had an orgasm in over a decade—until it returned during a guided practice in month two.
• Erectile dysfunction that had been there his whole adult life—completely resolved after completing one 20-week program.
• She couldn’t be touched after a traumatic birth—now, 4 sessions in, she’s feeling safe in her body again and wants sex on her own terms.
• A woman who never felt sexual or feminine enough—she’s now enjoying sex again, and even found the confidence to start her own mission-led business after just 6 sessions of reclaiming her body.
Deep Body Sanctum is for the ones who’ve been told their symptoms are dysfunctions—when really, they are the body’s sacred signals, asking for presence, not fixing.
Come home to the parts of you that were always sacred.
Warm oil. Bare feet on earth.
The first breath that doesn’t brace.
This is not performance.
This is return.
we’ve been told so many lies about our sex, our pleasure, and our bodies.
That dysfunction means we’re broken.
That pain is just something we have to live with.
That low desire/low libido is a personal failing.
That it’s all in our heads—or that we just haven’t found the right partner, product, or pill.
But the truth is:
Your body isn’t the problem.
Your pleasure isn’t gone—it’s just been buried under shame, stress, and disconnection.
The real key to healing sexual “dysfunction”?
It’s learning how to work with your body—not override it.
That’s when the orgasms return, the pain fades, the desire comes back, and intimacy starts to feel like yours again.
Here, your body is not a problem to solve.
It’s a compass—one that’s always been pointing you back to yourself.
This is not pathology.
This is the beginning of your return.
deep body sanctum is for you if you’re experiencing:
Painful sex (dyspareunia)
Vaginismus or difficulty with penetration
Numbness or over-sensitivity in your genitals or pelvic floor
Erectile difficulties or ejaculation concerns
Delayed orgasm, anorgasmia, or inability to climax
Sexual shutdown or “low libido”
Difficulty identifying what you want
Chronic pelvic pain or tension
Loss of sensation or erotic connection
Disconnection from your arousal or desire
Fear, shame, or guilt about your sexual body
Hyperarousal or confusion around boundaries
Mismatched desire in partnerships
A history of sexual trauma or boundary rupture
Overwhelm, dissociation, or freeze responses during intimacy
A sense that sex is more about performance than presence
The haunting feeling that your body isn’t safe, lovable, or whole
Difficulty receiving or relaxing during touch
Here, your body is not a problem to solve.
It’s a compass—one that’s always been pointing you back to yourself.
This is not pathology.
This is the beginning of your return.
Because the truth is…
The real key to healing sexual “dysfunction” isn’t more willpower, hormones, or techniques—
it’s working with the body, not against it.
That’s when the orgasms return, the pain fades, the desire comes back, and things finally start to make sense.
🕯️ You might have tried tantra, sacred sexuality, shadow work, and even sex therapy.
Maybe you’ve tried reading books on how to have sex, heal your relationship to your body.
And while parts resonated, most of it felt…
Too shiny. Too archetypal. Too bypass-y. Too disembodied.
And somehow, still not sacred enough.
You’re done with spiritual bypass, self-help scripts, and coaches who want you to heal shame by performing pleasure.
You’re brilliant, boundaried, respected—
or you’re one of those magical beings that can articulate exactly what’s happening in your internal world,
…but still find yourself shapeshifting in love,
forgetting your desires,
and blaming yourself for not “getting it right.”
and never really being able to feel your emotions.
You may not know it yet but….
Your body is crying out for a seat at the table.
This may look like:
— low libido
— pelvic pain or numbness
— chronic illness
— or a subtle, aching disconnect between you and your pleasure and a pain that doesn't scream—but slowly, silently unravels the threads of your Self.
You long for a safe space to return to the moment your erotic self was first born—
to dismantle the internalized systems that taught you to fear her/him/them in the first place--
and to finally give them the world they was always denied.
Deep Body Sanctum is the exquisitely held, 1:1 somatic coaching and Sexological Bodywork® container where your most sacred sexual parts are finally met, honored, and integrated—through your body, your somatic intelligence, and the kind of reverent presence you’ve always deserved.
💡 Research in somatics, trauma recovery, and Sexological Bodywork® shows...
That real transformation doesn’t come from insight alone—
it comes from the body. From sensation. From slowness.
From being seen, touched, and mirrored in a state your nervous system actually trusts.
Studies show that bottom-up, body-based healing leads to up to a 71% reduction in trauma symptoms, while top-down, cognitive-only methods rarely reach that depth.
And Eugene Gendlin in Focusing found that therapy only really works when we bring the body with us.
Specifically within the modality of Sexological Bodywork®, in one study 82% of clients reported greater body awareness, 74% experienced more satisfying sex, and 68% said they felt healing around past sexual trauma.
So no, you're not “resistant to healing.”
You're just not a brain in a jar.
You’re a whole, breathing system that stores shame in the pelvis, silence in the throat, and wisdom in the very tissue of your being.
That’s why I don’t just offer tools—I offer attunement, touch, and fully embodied movement—because your body isn’t a machine. Your healing isn't a factory line of disassociated parts.
You are a green thing.
And green things don’t need fixing.
They need tending.
🌙 What Do We Actually Do in Deep Body Sanctum?
Deep Body Sanctum is private 1:1 work with Nicole—offered online or in person in Austin.
Each session is tailored, somatic, and sacred.
Deep Body Sanctum is not talk therapy. It’s not sacred sexuality theater.
It’s deep, precise, somatic work rooted in Sexological Bodywork®, nervous system repair, erotic re-mapping, and the kind of nuanced presence most spaces simply aren’t trained—or spacious enough—to hold.
Each session you will experience an immersive, trauma-informed container built for deep erotic re-patterning through presence, attunement, and touch.
so what does that actually mean?
You already know the buzzwords: embodiment, integration, trauma-informed.
But what do they actually mean inside a container that doesn’t whitewash healing, dilute the sacred, or bypass the body for a better brand of empowerment?
Here’s what that actually looks like:
🔹 Somatic Sex Education®/Sexological Bodywork®:
This is not about giving you a better “sex life.”
It’s about giving you a better relationship with your body, your voice, your capacity to feel, your ability to say no—and your access to an authentic yes.
We’ll use evidence-informed frameworks rooted in Sexological Bodywork® and somatic coaching to help your body remember what it already knows (the better sex life is just a juicy bonus ;P).
🔹 The Sacred Re-Patterning of Touch:
Together, we rewire your relationship to touch, consent, and desire—not in theory, but in your cells.
You’ll learn how to track sensation, build safety, navigate boundaries, and open to pleasure at a pace your body actually wants (not what the world expects).
🔹 Erotic Integration, Not Archetype Performance:
We won’t ask you to embody some pre-written version of the “goddess.”
We’ll help you uncover your erotic truth—the weird, wild, sacred, soft, awkward, untamed truth that no template can hold.
This is about honoring every part of your erotic body that was shamed, ignored, or left behind… and calling it home.
🔹 Intersectional, Trauma-Informed Holding:
This space is explicitly designed to hold all of you—including your lived experiences with race, class, gender, sexuality, neurodivergence, and systemic harm.
Your body isn’t a vacuum. Neither is your healing.
🌿 How It Works
In-Person Work in Austin
If you're longing for the full Deep Body Sanctum experience—including the possibility of hands-on Sexological Bodywork®—Nicole offers a limited number of in-person spaces in her private Austin practice.
This is a more intimate and immersive process, designed for seekers ready to go deeper with full-body presence, nervous system repair, and erotic re-mapping through somatic touch.
Nicole only sees 20 clients per season in person. If you’re feeling the pull, we strongly encourage you to start the application process now.
👉 [Book a Clarity Call to Start the Application Process]
Please note:
— Nicole does not offer one-off in-person sessions.
— These in person sanctum sessions are part of a longer, intentional container.
— If you’re unsure if hands-on work is right for you, you’re welcome to book a 30-minute Clarity Call.
→ Curious about Sexological Bodywork®? [Learn More Here]
Online Sessions
Not in Austin? Beautiful things can happen. Begin your virtual journey—held with just as much attunement and depth.
Your first session will be a soft landing space:
a place to lay down what you’ve been carrying, share your story, explore your erotic wounds and aspirations, and begin being met—fully and without performance.
Because space is limited, we highly recommend booking your first two sessions upfront so we can move from intake into transformation without delay.
what past clients say about this space:
“The reason I started therapy in general was to find a lost libido, but this work helped me find ME. The libido is just a bonus!”
“Nicole has been a wonderful and valuable guide along my body healing journey. She skillfully facilitated our building a safe place to explore the hard-set fears and shame I inherited and had sustained throughout my life.”
“You helped me go from existential dread to relaxed trust in my body to help me feel my life’s meaning".”
“I have referred at least 4 people! Because IT WORKS.”
“Nicole’s warmth and acceptance have supported my in my path to self-love by providing a sacred space to share and explore parts of myself I have kept suppressed my whole life.”
“Nicole has inspired me to seek out pleasure every day, and for that I’m thankful.”
“Nicole is guiding me in a program customized for my body’s needs at the pace that’s perfect for my body, and the results are everlasting change! I feel more alive than ever before…”
“The work you do day to day repatterns people’s nervous systems so they can treat themselves more gently than they knew was possible.”
“She was always warm, encouraging, and accepting.”
Imagine this
(and let your body really feel this possibility too)...
You become a person who…
💫 Makes love as a form of prayer—not performance.
💫 Feels their own desire without waiting for permission.
💫 Can cry, climax, speak their truth, and still feel held.
💫 Lets their body lead—not their wounds, not their to-do list.
💫 Lives with erotic integrity—knowing exactly what they want, what they need, and how to say yes to both.
💫 Feels safe enough in their own skin to be soft and wild, to be sacred and sexual, to be messy, alive, and free.
You start to move through the world differently.
You wear clothes that feel like soft skin.
You touch yourself like a ritual.
You speak without apologizing for your power.
You stop outsourcing your worth to lovers, mentors, or algorithms.
And sex—yes, your sacred sex—becomes the most honest, life-giving conversation you've ever had with the divine.
This is what Deep Body Sanctum was built for.
Not just healing.
But remembering.
Not just transformation.
But the homecoming your body has been dreaming of all along.
I'm Nicole,
Certified Sexological Bodywork(R), Trauma-informed professional, and wannabe ecologist
And I’ve devoted my life to building sanctums for magical beings like you—
spaces that strike the nuanced chord of spiritual without bypass,
sexual without performance,
and embodied without commodification.
Spaces rooted in the deep, organic logic of nature— where your body is not a problem to fix, but a living, breathing ecosystem with its own rhythms, intelligence, and belonging.
The people I work with vibrate on a frequency most of the world doesn’t even know exists.
We thrive in multiplicity.
We speak paradox fluently.
We know the ripest truths are found in liminal spaces—the cracks where old stories die and new pleasure can finally grow.
That is the substance Deep Body Sanctum was built from.
It's a sacred altar where…
your erotic self is remembered and revered
your body becomes your compass, not your project
your pleasure becomes a political, spiritual, and biological reclamation
and your love rewilds the world from the inside out