The Collection
Everything I have made to help you understand what is happening in your body, your desire, and your relationship — and what to do about it. You can start anywhere. There is no wrong door into this work.
Courses
For when you are ready to go deeper into one specific thing. Each of these was built around a real experience — not a curriculum, but a conversation you have probably been needing to have for a long time.
Lover, Not a Mother
A 10-day audio journey for the woman who has become her partner's emotional manager — and lost herself, and her desire, somewhere in the process. This is where you start taking yourself back.
Attraction, Unforced
A 60-minute masterclass on desire that does not perform. Why attraction fades in long-term relationships, what is actually driving it, and how to stop trying to manufacture something that needs completely different conditions to grow.
When Closeness Feels Like Pressure
For couples where intimacy has started to feel heavy — where one person has gone quiet in their body and the other does not know how to reach them without making it worse. A guided path back toward each other that does not require anyone to perform.
When the Body Says No
For the person who has tried everything and still feels shut down, numb, or disconnected from their own desire. This is not about fixing you. It is about learning to read what your body has been trying to say — and understanding that it has never once made a mistake.
Guides
Short, specific, and built for the moment you need to understand one thing clearly. These are distilled from years of working with real people in real bodies. Not theory. Not generalities. The thing itself.
Erotic Motivators
What actually turns you on — and why it may be completely different from your partner. A map for two people who have been guessing at each other for years.
Dissociation During Sex
When you leave your body during intimacy. What that is, why it happens, and how to find your way back without forcing yourself anywhere you are not ready to go.
The Desire Deck
A game for couples that creates the conditions for equal pleasure — conversation, curiosity, and connection without the pressure of getting it right.
Harmonious Desires Intimacy Guide
Four essential practices for couples navigating mismatched desire — built for the relationship where both people are trying and it still is not working.
Free Resources
Here is where you can find me thinking out loud — in conversations, essays, and practices you can return to.
Nature of Pleasure
Conversations about the erotic, the relational, and the embodied — the things that shape a whole life and rarely get said out loud.
Listen free
Public Journal of an Intimacy Educator
Essays from inside the work. What I am thinking about, noticing, and learning from years of sitting with people in their most honest moments.
Read on Substack
Guided Practices on Insight Timer
Body-based, pleasure-positive meditations for returning to yourself. A place to start when the body feels far away.
Find me on Insight TimerFrom the Blog
Long-form writing on desire, the body, relationships, and the cultural conditions that shape all of it.
What 8 Weeks Can Do for the Rest of Your Relationship: Reset Your Erotic Rhythm
ReadThe Myth of the Valentine's Day Spark — Why Long-Term Desire Doesn't Work the Way You Think
ReadWhy Breakup Culture Isn't the Whole Story — The Hidden Complexity of Modern Love
ReadThe Deeper Work
If what you have found here is pointing you toward something more sustained — a real container, with me, over time — that work exists. It comes in two forms, depending on where you are and what you are carrying.