My first sexuality event
My name is Nicole Siegel and before I created the Body Compass, I was on a healing journey that changed the course of my life forever.
I had spent years working through deep personal healing—uncovering the layers of shame and fear I had built around my body and my sexuality. I was doing the work, learning to love my body again, and exploring what pleasure meant to me. It wasn’t easy. There were moments when it felt like two steps forward, one step back.
But slowly, I began to find my way back into my own skin.
I had figured out how to:
Reconnect with my body through somatic practices, feeling more grounded and present.
Release the shame I had carried for so long around my body, sex, and desire.
Begin listening to my body’s wisdom and trusting its signals again.
But after all that work, I realized something was missing.
I had done the individual healing, but I knew I needed more.
I wanted to take everything I had learned and bring it out into the world.
I couldn’t help but crave an experience where my pleasure could be celebrated, not just in private, but in a community of people who shared the same values.
The Moment Everything Changed
I joined my first-ever naked dance party on Zoom. 💃👙🩲
That's right, no clothes, bobbing and jiggling, folding and creasing, all on camera. ;P
It sounds wild, I know, but it was one of the most empowering experiences of my life.
The consent-based community dictated that if someone wanted to comment on your appearance, pin your video, or interact with you in any way 1v1, they had to ask (amazing.. right? never have I ever felt so safe).
After a few moments I found my groove, started moving a little easier, and someone asked if they could give me a compliment. I gave a full-hearted YES.
They praised not just how I moved, but how my body looked. And here’s the thing—I wasn’t at my skinniest. I hadn’t shaved, I wasn’t “polished”, I'm not even sure I had brushed my hair that morning. But I felt so deeply seen and celebrated exactly as I was.
That moment opened something in me. It was like all the work I had been doing on myself had finally clicked into place.
I felt free—free from shame, free from judgment, free to simply be in my body, exactly as it was.
And after that experience, I couldn’t get enough.
Finding My Way in My Pleasure-Filled World
After that dance party, you couldn’t stop me from finding every sex-positive event I could get my hands on. I sought out spaces that felt safe, welcoming, and well-facilitated, and with each new experience, I felt more empowered in my body and my pleasure. The whole world felt like a playground, a pleasure garden made just for me and the incredible people I had the privilege of walking alongside.
It was heaven.
My body became a pleasure-driven temple, and I couldn’t stop exploring how good it felt to live in a state of full embodiment. That’s when I realized I had to share this with others—I had to help others feel what it was like to truly live in their bodies without shame or fear.
I knew I wanted to create safe spaces for others just like I’d experienced myself
That’s why I began my studies as a somatic sexologist, and eventually, I created the Body Compass. My private practice was born out of my deep desire to offer others the kind of sex-positive, shame-free space that had transformed my own life. I wanted to give people the same opportunity to experience what it’s like to be truly seen, celebrated, and supported in a community that honors your body, your pleasure, and your eroticism.
Are You Ready to Follow the Call of Your Pleasure?
If your body has been whispering (or maybe shouting) that it’s time for something more, this is your invitation, a free 30 minute clarity call with me.
I’m opening space for 1:1 sessions — a deeply personalized journey where we listen to your body together, untangle the patterns holding you back, and map a pathway to more pleasure, intimacy, and freedom.
This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about creating lasting transformation by honoring your body’s wisdom.
When you book your free 30-minute clarity call, you’ll:
✨ Get a taste of what it’s like to work with me 1:1.
✨ Begin uncovering the messages your body is holding.
✨ Walk away with clarity about your next step on this journey.
Your body is already calling you forward. All you have to do is answer.
👉 [Click here to book your free 30-minute call today.]
I can’t wait to meet you and help you step more fully into the life, love, and pleasure you deserve.
With love,
Nicole
Key Topics:
somatic sexologist / somatic sex therapy
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sex-positive healing community
how to heal sexual shame
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1:1 sexual healing sessions
healing after sexual shame or trauma
how to reconnect with your body and pleasure
