Exclusive pre-launch: Join the waitlist now — only waitlisters get free access to this Mistressclass.

Exclusive pre-launch: Join the waitlist now — only waitlisters get free access to this Mistressclass. 

Lover

Not mother

How to be a better feminist in love with an emotionally immature man

The shift every over-functioning woman needs when her man won’t grow up, and she desperately needs to get her desire back.

Exclusive pre-launch: Join the waitlist now — only waitlisters get free access to this Mistressclass.

You love him. But damn, you’re tired.

You didn’t sign up to be his therapist.
You didn’t sign up to be his mom.
And you sure as hell didn’t sign up to be his “life coach in yoga pants.”

But here you are — carrying the emotional weight of his growth, teaching him how to talk about feelings, spelling out intimacy step by step… all while quietly noticing how much less you want him because of it.

Sound familiar?

You’re not crazy. THIS IS A GIANT CULTURAL SETUP

No one taught us how to do modern love.
Our parents didn’t model emotional responsibility.
Our culture gave men zero training in intimacy, repair, or actual partnership.
And so the burden landed on you — because of course it did.

You became the emotional syllabus he never got.
And now your desire is paying the price.

This Mistressclass is your way out of that trap.

I created this free class for women exactly like you — feminist, smart, emotionally evolved, done with carrying the relationship on your back.

In just one powerful session, you’ll discover:

  • The #1 blindspot that keeps women stuck in caretaker mode (and why no one else is naming it).

  • The Feminist Traps Archetypes — 8 roles women fall into when their partner won’t grow up, and how each one drains your attraction.

  • The secret pivot that gets you out of overfunctioning jail and back into your erotic self.

  • Why you don’t need to leave your relationship to feel desire again — but you do need to stop raising him.

This isn’t about blaming him. Or fixing you.

It’s about giving you the clarity and tools to stop mothering your partner and start wanting him again.

Because the truth is: attraction doesn’t die because you’re “too feminist” or “too demanding.” It dies when you’re forced into roles that kill desire.

This class shows you the way out.