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The 10 day life-changing relationship recalibration for women who can do it all except let it go

I’m Done Mothering

This 10 day relationship Reset is for:

❤️ High EQ queens who can talk circles around their partners
❤️ Women who could literally write an entire novel on the inner mechanisms of what’s wrong in their relationship
❤️ Over-functioning goddesses who know that the only way to get their desire back is to heal the fcked up relational dynamics that were handed down to them by generations past (hello generational trauma)

Let’s be honest… you know your frustration & resentment isn’t totally his fault.

You are here because you KNOW you are over-functioning in your relationship,
because your resentment is building because you are so much fcking smarter than him.

You can talk circles around him in every single fight, no matter what corner of your relationship it is in.

You are dreaming of a self-actualized, self possessed man
who knows what he wants,
can attune to you in a way that actually gets you wet,
and inspires your growth for once.

Trust me. I get it.

And, you know what? You’re right. There is a skills gap between the two of you
He was never taught basic relational skills, how to understand his feelings, basically how to be human.

But that doesn’t mean that your jedi-relational skills need to create the bridge between his capabilities and yours.

What you need is to finally stop mothering men,
a survival technique that your mother handed down to you,
who was handed it by your grandmother and so forth (thanks patriarchy).

It’s time to finally give up the mother role in your relationship so you can FINALLY be met, for the first time ever, by a lover that can hold all of you.

And I’m not talking about some dream fireman that swoops in to save the day.
The guy you’re lusting for might already waiting for you in your bed every night.

What you need to do to finally find the co-creative, egalitarian, mutually growthful relationship you always dreamed of is:
to exit the mother/teacher role in your relationship that generations of women have been carrying on their backs,
leave enough room for him to actually SHOW UP the way you’ve always longed he would,
so you can finally receive the relationship you’ve always deserved for the first time in your life.

Drop the Mother Role

And our brilliance is backed by science too…

“Across studies, women beat men at reading feelings—about 80% of experiments show a female edge in emotion recognition.” PLOS AND “Women don’t just read emotions better—they read them faster, especially when the cues are subtle.” Frontiers

The world trained your brilliance into unpaid labor; this Reset hands it back and turns it into turn-on.

Be Met Now

In 10 days, magic will start to happen:

  • You stop jumping in to do basic human tasks for him. When he asks where the scissors are (again), your body doesn’t leap to save; you stay centered, let him figure it out, and it doesn’t even give you that anxious-kinky hit anymore.

  • His initiation for sex stops making you scoff. He starts reading the room and taking real ownership, and he looks like a partner again—not a fourth kid.

  • Your body starts to actually believe he’s an adult: You start unwinding generations of doing it all. No more quietly pattering around the kitchen while he kicks back with a beer enjoying the dinner party you threw.

  • You can actually imagine having sex with him again because for the first time ever you feel like you’ve ACTUALLY exited the 1950s housewife dynamic.

  • Start to feel like your out-of-this-world EQ is honored in your partnership: You’ll actually feel your mind being stimulated by your union for the first time.

What’s inside:

This reset is short and sweet to protect your bandwidth and your desire, delivering only the shifts that hand back the load, steady your nervous system, and make attraction possible again.

  • 10 short audio transmissions delivered to your inbox every day (transcripts included for accessibility)

  • Six one-page tools:

    • Years of Sex You Didn’t Enjoy (and Never Said a Word)? → Use my One-Line Pivot Process to ask once and actually enjoy his touch tonight.

    • Tired of Explaining Chores? Stop Being the Household App → Turn your endless to-do list into End-to-End SHARED Ownership with my 5-minute process.

    • Same Fight, New Day— He Shuts Down, You Explain, He Gets Defensive, You Take It Back.→ Use my Instant Repair Protocol for a fast repair and to finally jump out of the spiral.

    • Get Him to Make the First Move—the next date, the next repair → Run a simple 15-minute reset to get him to actually hear what you’ve always wanted.

    • He’s on His Phone, You Feel Alone → Get him to drop the screen and actually connect again tonight.

Why this works 

We can’t “fix men,” (they aren’t broken), but we can redesign the system you’re both caught in—roles, rhythms, and rules—so the mother/teacher dynamic has nowhere to live.

I work nervous system–first because if your body can’t tolerate the gap—those 30 seconds where you’d normally rescue—nothing changes; I’ll give you the exact downshift that steadies you in the moment.

Then we restore ownership, because real agency (not perfection or gold stars) is what makes adult partnership—and actual heat—possible again.

This is trauma-aware, evidence-informed practice, not pop advice:
hand back the load, anchor a repair rhythm, and watch attraction return when you’re no longer supervising it.

No More Managing

We are the last generation to mother our men.

The patriarchal line ends now.

Start the reset today.

FAQ

  • Do I have to coach him?
    No. You’ll use scripts and tiny experiments that change the system without mothering. And, more importantly, this is actual internal work in YOU, not relational work for him.

  • What if he’s “behind” emotionally?
    We work with that reality — ownership and repair don’t require mind-reading or perfect EQ.

  • What if we backslide?
    You’ll have two If/Then cards to catch it fast, a repeatable protocol that will keep you moving in the right direction.

  • How much time does this take each day?
    About 10–12 minutes: a short audio + one tiny experiment. No journaling marathons.

  • Do I need him to participate?
    No. You’ll change the system from your side with boundaries, hand-backs, and pacing—no coaching required.

  • Do I need any materials?
    Just your inbox. You’ll get one-page tools (planner, scripts, cards) you can print or save to your phone.

  • What if we’re in couples/sex therapy already?
    Great. This complements therapy with concrete micro-practices you can bring into sessions.

  • Is this anti-man?
    No. We change roles and rhythms, not personalities. It’s systemic, not shaming.

  • This is not for everyone.
    If you’re in an unsafe or coercive situation, skip this program and use the resource links inside. This is education, not therapy.

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