Lovernot mother
The 10-day shift every over-functioning woman needs when her man won’t grow up, and she desperately needs to get her desire back.
Give me 7 minutes/per day and I’ll show you exactly how to be happily in love with an emotionally immature man without overfunctioning, sacrificing parts of yourself, or lowering your standards.
💌10 seven-minute life-changing audio transmissions delivered straight to your inbox
🖤No homework, no effort— just a new lease on life (and the life of your relationship)
🎀🎄Special Holiday Sale!!!🎅🎀
$175
$47
A gift that’s finally for you… because let’s be honest,
no one’s remembering to fill your stocking anyway.
This 10-day relationship upgrade is for:
❄️ Women who quietly become Santa, Mrs. Claus, and the entire logistics department every damn holiday
❄️ Women whose partner waits on the sidelines with “just tell me what you need” while she carries the entire mental load
❄️ Women who know their desire didn’t vanish — it shut down after years of being the engine behind everyone else’s magic
the holiday miracle awaiting you:
❤️ You wake up and don’t immediately start tracking what needs to get done for both of you. Your body feels quieter. Your jaw isn’t clenched before coffee.
❤️ He notices what needs doing — and just does it. No reminders. No delegation. No invisible checklist running in your head while you pretend to relax.
❤️ You stop bracing when he asks a question, because you’re no longer expecting to carry the answer, the plan, and the emotional follow-through.
❤️ You don’t rehearse conversations in your head anymore. You’re not preparing to be the reasonable one. Things actually move without you pushing.
❤️ Sex stops feeling like one more obligation on a long list — and starts feeling like something your body actually wants.
❤️ You feel met. Not catered to. Not “helped.” Met.
This is a 10-day digital immersion you get immediate access to — with daily audio practices delivered straight to your inbox that effortlessly shift you out of the mother role and into the lover role.
Give me 🎧🗣️ 7 minutes a day and feel the relief of finally not being the one holding everything together.
How Many Times Have You Felt Like This?
You’re days into the holiday season and you’re already exhausted — not from the festivities, but from holding everything together. The gifts. The plans. The emotional tone of the house.
For everyone else… somehow, it all “just happens”… because you make it happen.
Your partner asks, “Just tell me what you need me to do,” and something in your body tightens. Because now you’re not just doing everything — you’re managing him while you do it.
You watch him enjoy the magic of the season while you’re backstage, exhausted, carrying the mental load, wondering how this became your role — and why it feels so familiar.
And underneath it all, you know this isn’t really about the holidays.
It’s about a dynamic you’ve been living in for years.
One you watched your mother live in too.
One that drains your desire (and, frankly, your will to live sometimes) every single time.
Let me say something out loud that no one else is ever going to tell you…
You don’t need another conversation.
You don’t need to explain yourself better.
You need a relationship that stops running on your labor.
If it feels like I’m describing your life a little too accurately, that’s not an accident.
This is the pattern I’ve helped hundreds of women finally step out of.
If 60 seconds of listening brings relief, imagine what 7 minutes a day (+ holy-sh*t-these-are-amazing pdf guides) can do. 💅😌
Something Has to F*cking Change.
You know exactly what it feels like to be the only adult in your relationship.
You’re exhausted from carrying the weight of the relationship,
from making all the calendar invites for everyone,
from anticipating needs no one ever anticipates for you.
And the worst part?
You can SEE the pattern.
You watched your mother do this.
Your grandmother.
Every dinner party, every family holiday — the same story, different outfits.
Women working, men coasting.
You swore you’d never recreate that dynamic,
and then one day you woke up…
and realized you’re living the exact thing you promised yourself you’d escape.
That is exactly why I created this 10-day relationship upgrade.
In just 10 days, I will walk you through the most transformative, dignity-restoring, polarity-rebalancing teachings that will rewrite the entire dynamic —
so you can finally receive again,
finally stop managing,
finally stop mothering him,
and finally break the generational pattern that has been passed down through the women in your lineage like a cursed family heirloom.
Because Let’s Be Honest…
Your frustration and resentment aren’t coming out of nowhere.
And they’re not entirely his fault.
You’re here because you KNOW you’ve been over-functioning in your relationship —
carrying every emotional nuance, every logistical detail, every invisible task —
and you’re doing it with the kind of competence that makes you resent the hell out of him.
Because what’s actually happening under the surface is this:
you learned to mother men because the women before you had to.
Your mother did it.
Her mother did it.
That’s the survival strategy we inherited under patriarchy —
and you’ve been reenacting it automatically, even as it kills your desire.
It’s time to put that role down.
Completely.
not someday, not theoretically, but now.
Holiday Flash Sale:
Get the full 10-day upgrade for $47 (normally $175)
— grab it now before it disappears ❄️✨
What’s Waiting For You Inside:
DAY 0 — The Moment You Finally Understand “WTF Is Wrong With Us” ................................................. You’ll get instant clarity on why things feel so uneven, why you’re doing everything, and why you’re so exhausted — so the pattern finally makes sense instead of feeling like a personal failure.
DAY 1 — Stop Being the Only One Who Handles Sh*t ................................................. You’ll learn the first shift that stops you from being the default parent/manager of the relationship — so the load on your shoulders finally gets lighter.
DAY 2 — Get Out of the “Teacher/Mom” Role That’s Killing Your Desire ................................................. You’ll learn why you instantly turn into a coach or a mother around him — and the exact move that lets your body switch back into lover mode again.
DAY 3 — Stop Feeling Like the Smartest Person in the Relationship ................................................. You’ll learn how to stop automatically taking over, explaining everything, and being “the one who knows” — so he can finally meet you instead of relying on you.
DAY 4 — Stop Being the Emotionally Mature One 100% of the Time ................................................. You’ll stop carrying the emotional labor, interpretation labor, nervous system labor, and “spiritual grown-up” role — so you’re no longer the only one holding the relationship together.
DAY 5 — End the Resentment You Feel When He Tries to Learn From You ................................................. You’ll stop feeling drained, annoyed, or turned off when he wants you to teach him things — because you’ll finally know how to make his growth feel GOOD instead of extractive.
DAY 6 — Finally Understand Why You Became “The Responsible One” ................................................. You’ll see why you became the CEO of the relationship — and learn how to step out of that position without everything collapsing.
DAY 7 — Stop Repeating the Exact Dynamic You Watched Your Mother Live ................................................. You’ll finally break the inherited pattern that keeps making you over-give, over-function, and over-fix — so you don’t become the woman who loses herself in her relationship.
DAY 8 — Give Him the Space to Step Up (Without You Pushing or Managing) ................................................. You’ll learn the internal shift that invites him to show up with more initiative, leadership, and presence — WITHOUT you explaining, asking, or prompting.
DAY 9 — Stop Feeling Like He’s “Not Masculine Enough” ................................................. You’ll learn why his masculinity feels dim or inconsistent — and how to create the conditions where he naturally becomes more grounded, attuned, decisive, and emotionally present.
DAY 10 — Rebuild Desire Without Forcing It or Faking It ................................................. You’ll learn why your desire disappears — and how to rebuild attraction in a way that feels natural, safe, and actually exciting again.
Daily Life-Changing Audios for 10 Days + Accompanying Pdfs
In 10 days, magic will start to happen:
You stop jumping in to do basic human tasks for him. When he asks where the scissors are (again), your body doesn’t leap to save; you stay centered, let him figure it out, and it doesn’t even give you that anxious-kinky hit anymore.
His initiation for sex stops making you scoff. He starts reading the room and taking real ownership, and he looks like a partner again—not a fourth kid.
Your body starts to actually believe he’s an adult: You start unwinding generations of doing it all. No more quietly pattering around the kitchen while he kicks back with a beer enjoying the dinner party you threw.
You can actually imagine having sex with him again because for the first time ever you feel like you’ve ACTUALLY exited the 1950s housewife dynamic.
Start to feel like your out-of-this-world EQ is honored in your partnership: You’ll actually feel your mind being stimulated by your union for the first time.
What’s included:
This reset is short and sweet to protect your bandwidth and your desire, delivering only the shifts that hand back the load, steady your nervous system, and make attraction possible again.
11 short audio transmissions delivered to your inbox every day (transcripts included for accessibility)
Six one-page tools:
Years of Sex You Didn’t Enjoy (and Never Said a Word)? → Use my One-Line Pivot Process to ask once and actually enjoy his touch tonight.
Tired of Explaining Chores? Stop Being the Household App → Turn your endless to-do list into End-to-End SHARED Ownership with my 5-minute process.
Same Fight, New Day— He Shuts Down, You Explain, He Gets Defensive, You Take It Back.→ Use my Instant Repair Protocol for a fast repair and to finally jump out of the spiral.
Get Him to Make the First Move—the next date, the next repair → Run a simple 15-minute reset to get him to actually hear what you’ve always wanted.
He’s on His Phone, You Feel Alone → Get him to drop the screen and actually connect again tonight.
Why this works We can’t “fix men,” (they aren’t broken), but we can redesign the system you’re both caught in—roles, rhythms, and rules—so the mother/teacher dynamic has nowhere to live.
I work nervous system–first because if your body can’t tolerate the gap—those 30 seconds where you’d normally rescue—nothing changes; I’ll give you the exact downshift that steadies you in the moment.
Then we restore ownership, because real agency (not perfection or gold stars) is what makes adult partnership—and actual heat—possible again.
This is trauma-aware, evidence-informed practice, not pop advice:
hand back the load, anchor a repair rhythm, and watch attraction return when you’re no longer supervising it.
Limited-time holiday window:
$175 → $47
🎁 Treat yourself to the relief you’ve been craving.
We are the last generation to mother our men.
The patriarchal line ends now.
Holiday steal:
$47 today for the course that’s usually $175 🎁🔥
Snag it before the doors close.
FAQ
Do I have to coach him?
No. You’ll use scripts and tiny experiments that change the system without mothering. And, more importantly, this is actual internal work in YOU, not relational work for him.What if he’s “behind” emotionally?
We work with that reality — ownership and repair don’t require mind-reading or perfect EQ.What if we backslide?
You’ll have two If/Then cards to catch it fast, a repeatable protocol that will keep you moving in the right direction.How much time does this take each day?
About 10–12 minutes: a short audio + one tiny experiment. No journaling marathons.Do I need him to participate?
No. You’ll change the system from your side with boundaries, hand-backs, and pacing—no coaching required.Do I need any materials?
Just your inbox. You’ll get one-page tools (planner, scripts, cards) you can print or save to your phone.What if we’re in couples/sex therapy already?
Great. This complements therapy with concrete micro-practices you can bring into sessions.Is this anti-man?
No. We change roles and rhythms, not personalities. It’s systemic, not shaming.This is not for everyone.
If you’re in an unsafe or coercive situation, skip this program and use the resource links inside. This is education, not therapy.After you sign up, you get instant access to all 10 days — lessons, audio practices, scripts, and everything you need to start shifting the dynamic immediately.
You can start tonight.
You’ll feel relief within the first lesson.